How to Choose a Wet Nurse

A wet nurse is a lactating woman hired by parents to breastfeed their infant. Wet nurses used to be very popular, but with the invention of formula and human milk banks, they aren't used often anymore. If you want to hire a wet nurse, there are some things to keep in mind.

Instructions

1

Consider choosing a friend or family member who is already breastfeeding. Not only will this help keep the fees down, but your friend or family member can have a special bond with your baby. You may also be more comfortable with a friend or family member breastfeeding your baby.

2

Get the wet nurse tested. There are many diseases that can be transferred through breastmilk including AIDS. Speak to your doctor and the wet nurse's doctor about having the proper tests done.

3

Take the wet nurse's personality into account. This woman will probably be living with you, helping to care for your baby. You must like this person and her personality must be a good match to your own.

4

Talk to the wet nurse about any rules you want her to adhere to. Some mothers who use wet nurses want the wet nurse to just feed the baby and do none of the other care. Other mothers prefer the wet nurse provide other baby care duties. In addition, you may want the wet nurse to adhere to a special diet or be open to changing her diet if your baby requires it.

5

Obtain a contract about the wet nurse's duties and what the fees will be. If you are going through an agency, chances are good the agency already has a contract.

6

Ask for references and check up on them.